Speaking & Media — Dr. Ronke Dosunmu

“You can train for medicine, leadership, business, and excellence — and still arrive in marriage without the skills that create emotional closeness.”

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Dr. Dos brings a physician's pattern recognition to the hidden marriage dynamics high-achieving women often struggle to name.

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Her talks are designed for audiences who are capable, responsible, and deeply successful — but quietly longing for more connection at home.

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She gives language to the private relational cost of competence, over-functioning, midlife, and achievement.

Signature Topics

Talks that name what high-achieving women have been quietly carrying.

Each topic can be adapted for podcasts, panels, keynotes, workshops, women's leadership events, physician groups, and healthcare organizations.

The Competence Trap

Why the very skills that make high-achieving women exceptional — responsibility, discipline, pattern recognition, and carrying — can quietly create loneliness in marriage.

Marriage as the Life Skill High-Achieving Women Were Never Taught

A powerful reframe for women who were trained for excellence everywhere except emotional closeness at home.

Relationship Physics

Why the diagnosis determines the prescription — and how understanding the four relationship positions changes what actually works next.

Needed More Than Known

The hidden relational cost of being the strong one, the capable one, the one who notices, initiates, and carries the emotional load.

Menovorce

Midlife, marriage, perimenopause, and the quiet drift that can happen when biology, burnout, and accumulated disconnection collide.

When Success Skills Stop Working at Home

How ambition, excellence, and high standards can become relational liabilities — and what it takes to build connection differently.

Ideal Audiences

For rooms full of women who are excellent at hard things.

Dr. Dos speaks to women who lead, build, practice, parent, serve, and carry significant responsibility — often while quietly wondering why connection at home feels harder than it should.

Women Physicians

For physician groups, wellness programs, medical societies, and women in medicine communities.

Healthcare Leaders

For organizations concerned with burnout, retention, relational wellbeing, and leadership sustainability.

Executive Women

For women's leadership groups, executive circles, and high-responsibility professional communities.

Entrepreneurs

For founders, business owners, and women building ambitious lives while trying to preserve connection at home.

Medical Families

For podcast hosts and communities exploring the impact of medicine on intimacy, marriage, and family life.

Women's Conferences

For gatherings centered on purpose, midlife, ambition, faith, identity, wellbeing, and relationships.

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Dr. Ronke Dosunmu

Founder, School of Wife

Marriage Education StrategistWife of 30+ yearsPracticing PhysicianBoard-Certified Pediatrician, FAAPMotherEntrepreneur

Speaker Bio

A physician, wife, mother, entrepreneur, and teacher of marriage as a life skill.

Dr. Ronke Dosunmu — Dr. Dos — is the founder of School of Wife, a marriage education platform for high-achieving women who are successful in public and quietly longing for deeper connection at home.

As a board-certified pediatrician (FAAP), entrepreneur, wife of more than 30 years, and mother, she brings a rare blend of clinical pattern recognition, lived experience, cultural insight, and practical teaching to conversations about marriage, ambition, midlife, and emotional closeness.

Her work helps capable women stop treating marriage like something they should simply know how to do — and start seeing it as a learnable, high-stakes life skill.

Media Kit

Everything a host or organizer needs to introduce Dr. Dos well.

Available for podcasts, virtual workshops, panels, keynotes, and select in-person events.

Need headshots, a long-form bio, or event copy? Reach out at DrDos@schoolofwife.com and we'll send everything you need.

Short Bio

Dr. Ronke Dosunmu is a marriage education strategist, board-certified pediatrician (FAAP), wife of 30+ years, mother, entrepreneur, and founder of School of Wife.

Long Bio

Expanded speaker bio for event programs, podcast show notes, and media introductions. Available upon request.

Headshots

Professional photos for event pages, promotional graphics, and podcast artwork. Available upon request.

Approved Title

Founder, School of Wife | Marriage Education Strategist | Board-Certified Pediatrician, FAAP

For Podcast Hosts

Questions that open the strongest conversations.

These prompts help move the conversation beyond generic marriage advice and into the School of Wife thesis.

Why do high-achieving women often feel more lonely inside their marriages than women who are less accomplished?

What is the Competence Trap, and how does it show up at home?

Why does trying harder to fix a marriage sometimes make things worse?

What does it mean for a woman to be needed more than known?

How does midlife change the marriage conversation for high-achieving women?

What does marriage as a life skill actually look like?

Invite Dr. Dos

Bring School of Wife to your audience.

For podcasts, panels, keynotes, workshops, interviews, women's leadership events, and healthcare organizations.

Please include the event name, date, audience, and format in your message.

Email a Speaking Inquiry →

Or email directly: DrDos@schoolofwife.com

Marriage is the life skill high-achieving women were never taught.